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Lifestyle and Club Etiquette

Lifestyle Etiquette:

First, feel free to check out the surroundings! The host couples at any event should take time to orient you to the event and even introduce you to some of the members if you are new and would like to meet a few people upon your arrival. Feel free to approach your hosts with any needs, questions, or concerns you have.

Next, be open and be yourselves. Do not hesitate to introduce yourselves to others - making friends is the key to positive social experiences.

Make sure that you and your partner discuss in advance your particular method of involvement with others and your boundaries as a couple. If you meet new friends during events or elsewhere, make sure you communicate your methods, boundaries, and any restrictions to them before you engage in an encounter.

The most important no-no to avoid is pushiness. Respect and consideration for the feelings and boundaries of others is paramount. Also, never touch others without asking. Do not assume that just because some may be involved that this means they are "fair game" for anyone to join in. This is absolutely not the case - wait to be invited or ask. Remember that free choice is every individuals right in this lifestyle and respecting that right is only common courtesy. Remember that being in this lifestyle does not mean that participants will engage in relationships with anyone and everyone. Some are more open and some are looking for a group of a very select few to become involved with. Every lifestyle participant must learn how to graciously accept a "no thank-you". There may be many reasons for personal tastes and interests, so learn to depersonalize the "no's" and walk away knowing the individuals that declined are looking for something else. In the same vein, don't be afraid to say "no thank-you" politely to unwanted invitations that you may get. Remember also that at our club or any other, participants are expected to conduct themselves with dignity. Group events are not the place to openly settle disputes or conflicts with your partner or anyone else for that matter. Creating a scene in public is never acceptable.

Nudity Etiquette:

There are generally two need-to-know points for nudity in any venue that presents the potential for losing some clothing. First, good hygiene is always expected. Secondly, as some of you may have learned from attending nudist resorts, it is expected that if you have removed pieces of clothing, that you will slip something between your tush and the upholstery. Most seasoned nudists, strippers and even those who frequently work out at gyms carry a small towel for exactly this purpose. It is not uncommon for clothing to go astray at events, so we suggest you bring a small towel with you if you're inclined to bare your buns. We will also make small tush towels available at events if you forget yours. If the impulse hits you and you find yourself towel unprepared, it's also fine to simply fold your clothes and place them between your tush and the furniture.

Your input and feedback:

Of course this is a social club and it's success is completely dependent on its members. We look for and encourage your input and feedback to help to continually improve your club and your experiences at the events! Please feel free to write us with your comments, suggestions, or general experiences to let us know what you like or would like to see different. And most importantly - HAVE FUN!!!